Same, I can't tell if my H is a WAS or MLC. He kind of shows signs of both. Is there a possibility that they're just somewhere in the middle?
Yes they are almost always somewhere in between. There are no set-in-stone criteria for WAS versus MLC so it can be very difficult to "diagnose" which they are.
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Started writing a pros/cons list to make me feel a little better about whats happening. Heres the rough draft
That entire list, every single item, is about your H. Make another list focused on YOU. What is it you want from life. Where do you see yourself going. What are your goals and ambitions. Then formulate a plan on making those things happen WITHOUT your H. You've got to set your H aside for now both literally and figuratively. Leave him to sort out his mess while you focus on growth and progress.
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This probably isn't a great way to think, but its kind of getting me through this separation period. Maybe we just aren't meant to be and we kept pushing for it anyway?
Once you start down your journey of growth and can remove your feelings and emotions from the M equation, THEN you can sort out the answer to that question. It's far too early to think about it now though. Get busy on yourself.
