TF... The pool game is okay. My sitch affected it earlier in the year as my brain was only half there. But I am recovering and so is my game.
So yesterday was unexpected. My sister accidentally flooded my butler’s pantry and the water came out into the main kitchen. We mopped it up as best we could but it managed to seep into the subfloor so water started pouring out of the air exchange vent downstairs. Called my insurance company and they told me to call a restoration company. So I did and they were here last night until midnight trying to mitigate the damage. Now I have to listen to a dehumidifier running 24/7 on both floors of my house. And there is a big hole in my ceiling downstairs. Apparently I have to let the hardwood floors settle for a couple of months before they can be refinished. So lots of excitement. Definitely figured out that I am not sweating the small stuff these days. I didn’t even get upset. Just felt bad for my sister.
So...confession time... when my friend was over on the weekend, she convinced me to put up a profile on a couple of dating apps. I had 11 guys wanting to meet me within two hours. It completely freaked me out. Haven’t replied to any of them... you have to buy a membership to do that. I’m not sure why I did it because I said I wasn’t going to. I guess I got a bit tired of feeling sad about my H and was a bit curious to see who is out there. She said there is no harm in meeting someone for coffee and making a new friend but I know that most people are on there to find a partner or a one night stand. Not sure I’m good material for the first and definitely not for the latter. I have never been a hook-up kind of person. Anyway...haven’t decided what I am going to do yet. I am feeling a bit rude that I haven’t gotten back to anyone though.
Davide - Yes. I am definitely grateful for my friendships and I have spent more time with other women in the last six months than I have in the six years prior. It is a really great silver lining, no doubt. Thanks for the encouragement. I have no expectations.
Time to get back to work. Hope all is well out there in DB Land. (((HUGS)))
