Father

I too have a funky schedule

I changed it up to make it better for my new life

So I would have more time with the kids

My employer was much more accommodating than I ever imagined

Be creative and think about your ideal schedule

Then talk to your boss about it

You may be pleasantly surprised

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving