Well dnj you certainly nailed that one about expectations how wrong was I then . W came round last night ,here we go I thought but no ,I explained passport gate to her and surprisingly no spewing no drama nothing. Well to say shell shocked is an understatement but no accepted the reasons I give her and everything was good . I wasn’t Going to push it with the “oh glad you found them scenario “ I was happy to leave it at that lol . So as it is all is ok for now . And today then sun is out no anxiety, no stress no cycling I will enjoy the peace for what it is .