do what works for you to feel better. seriously. because your H will not so you have to rely on yourself. Sad, I know. wish it wasn't like that but we play the hand we're dealt.
pros-
you love him
cons- he's abducted by aliens right now
would you be standing until the little green guys return him?
when he returns, he may have all of those cons removed
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current