So yeah - thanks for those quotes Ready2Change. I read nearly all of them, many 2 or 3 times now.
I am still confused why I shouldnt ask her to move out now that I have all but the silver bullet on her A. She is more or less ignoring the kids and quite frankly when she isnt here the 3 of us (2 kids) have a great time. When she is here there is odd tension in the house.
I also see in these quotes a lot of recommendation to 'out' the cheating spouse - to parents, boss etc. That I have not thought of and frankly to me seems like the wrong path to take. What is the current recommendation here (lots of those posts were from 2010 or so).
The WW keeps scheduling 'out' nights and days away now on our calendar. I did mention that the kids are noticing her actions and that she should start doing the right thing for the kids. She didnt take that very well.
