Great visit with my friend this weekend. It was good to have her around. The house seemed less empty. Yet another person who never really warmed to my H. She said she couldn’t put her finger on why. She thought he wasn’t very friendly and didn’t seem interested in her at all. Now he has only seen her a few times so it is more of an “impression” than an opinion based on lots of contact. I think the last couple times she saw him, he was already checking out of our marriage so maybe that is why he seemed standoffish. He didn’t always come across that way. I, too, have noticed his personality shift in the latter half of our marriage to where he wasn’t very friendly to others but I guess when you are living a lie, it starts to affect how you present yourself to people.
I saw him last night. We had a brief chat. He wants to talk later this week. Says it is important and he has to be in the right frame of mind. Wants to go through “everything” with me and he can’t do it in ten minutes. So...that will be interesting.
