I'm starting to, R2C. I have a few social events that will give me an opportunity to work on this skill.
She was honest, and so was I. I took rejection with grace (I think). We hung out under the guise as friends but it really felt like a date. I almost went in for the kiss but had to pull back a couple of time because of her request to keep it friendly and casual.
I'll try to post further details. Based on the feedback of what I described, I was told that I was being played with and there were a lot of red flags. I got further advice from my uncle and he told me that she may have been testing me (like you said).