You are on the right track, i.e., rediscovering yourself and being happy w/the person you are and continue to want to be. Think back to when you were single, what did you enjoy doing? Make a list of those things that you wish/want to accomplish and then begin w/one item and continue from there.
I think you are doing great. Keep up the good work and yes, you will cycle from time to time, but as you heal, you will notice that the cycling time will soon be shorter and shorter.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
