Ahhh I think I didn’t properly wordmy question or thoughts... per usual. So let me reframe to try and get to the point I meant to. My initial question had nothing to do with frequency. I said it was an 8 for me on the important scale but I would be more than happy with meaningful encounters every two weeks vs meangingless ones everyday. Of course when you look at like that, everyone will rate sex high right? But in my marriage I didn’t, for whatever reason, I said it is what it is and other things make up for it. Again, nothing to do with frequency and I didn’t even think it was a problem until I look back.
So how important is ‘chemistry’? Is it even a thing? Or is ‘chemistry’ simply a marker of the state of your relationship and how things are going in your lives?? Can you have a lasting romantic relationship with little sexual chemistry?? It’s hard for me to answer this because I was with more or less with one person for 20 years so I don’t know much different. Does ‘chemistry’ go away with time??
Obviously I got the ‘chemistry’ talk on BD haha! But I am genuinely curious.
