Clinging to Hope

[hope2019]

Thank you Steve. Already so glad to have joined this forum.

You are right and actually that has happened a lot of our relationship. He likes to be different and stand out from the crowd and not the norm...

I am scared that everything is moving so fast and he wants the divorce so quickly...

I'm learning to say nothing at all about the relationship, only discuss the divorce in the attorney's office right?

I'm trying to be grateful for this real time apart now so I can start these habits of having no contact and then when he is back, I will know I can leave him completely alone. I am hoping that he can figure out the time and space while we are still living together...but realize now everything I did in the past 2 weeks was detriment to that.

I think i am at that point where I know what I have to do.... no contact...LRT, and I am determined to do it...but terrified at the same time.


@ready2change - that's correct! 6 year old from H1. H2 is without doubt my soulmate, I am 30 in a few weeks, he is 35.