You are on the right path. Just don't steer toward a committed relationship to quickly. The more work you do now, the healthier you will be and you will attract a healthier partner. And if you W does have a change of heart, you will be able to help guide her in the proper direction.
My X still does not talk to me. It has been 10 years.
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