Thanks guys. Yes maybe gaslighting. Early on when this was all in the early stages of falling apart I recalled to him something awful he said to me in an argument just one week prior that made me cry in a restaurant and I had to step out. He had zero recollection of ever even having an argument according to him, I just stormed out of the restaurant upset for no reason. So yeah maybe it’s gaslighting to make me think everything is my fault or maybe it’s the fog.
Thanks neffer, it’s reassuring knowing that I’m not crazy and this is something that’s actually happening. I’ll have to go through and read your past posts. I’ve also heard the ILYBNILWY and I haven’t felt I loved you for a year (even though it sure seemed like it)
