It’s frustrating cause his girlfriend gets to see him being a great dad, but meanwhile I am the real parent. He knows how to say something that makes it seem like he does a lot. Like he will make it a point of saying to the teachers “I always make sure he rewrites his homework neatly with me and I notice he can do it when i make him go slow” meanwhile he only sees him 1.5 hrs onenight a week while I work and won’t keep him extra for a library program and usually drops him off early with my parents. He only started going to the school stuff cause his girlfriend is a kindergarten teacher. But the way he makes a big deal out of the one thing he does, gives every one a different impression. In hind site he used to do this to me and his mom as well and he looks like a hero
I know it shouldn’t matter but it does.
I also think I wouldn’t be so jealous of him and his girlfriend if I was happy with my own relationship. And that is telling me something as well. I don’t even want to invite bf on a trip cause I don’t want someone commenting on things that go wrong I want someone that just goes with the flow a bit more.
