Here is the rule: When she texts or emails, only answer direct questions. Informational texts and emails need no response. When responding to her questions do so on YOUR time (IE not always right away), and then in as few words as possible. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018