M.....one thing I have to keep reminding myself is that my Xw did not know her current bf at bd. At times I have to keep reminding myself that whatever feeling I have towards my Xw her bf has nothing to do with it. He had nothing to do with what happened to me, it is not his fault. He is just some dude, that finds my Xw attractive, and is now dating her. Sure maybe he didn’t use the best judgement in starting to date someone who wasn’t officially divorced yet but that is on him and again has nothing to do with what happened to me.
