Hi DnJ , Marina, I don't think the N/C will change anytime soon because it was implemented by me, but I am supposed to wait for her to come to me before it's changed or so I thought. I think she is still with the other man so there isn't room for three of us. I am not interested in being friends at this point. I think she would be cake eating if we where. We do kid exchanges at school so we don't see each other hardly at all. When we do she hides behind the door when I drop off at her place and she waits down stairs when she picks up at mine. Though she did say something to me yesterday as my daughter has has the flu. " I am not sending Daughter to school tomorrow as I don't think she is well enough". "I am sick too". I know it's a small sentence and I probably reading to much into it. But I didn't respond to her being "sick too" I just said we will see how she is feeling tomorrow and go from there.