So I really don't believe there are many people who really don't have a decent sex drive. I think it is more to do with who you are having sex with and the underlying causes.
I have to wonder if this is me, and describes something about me and my sitch, if I’m being honest.
That maybe I’m truly not as attracted to W as I thought I was or hoped to be. And maybe our attitudes about sex / sexuality contributed to that—that maybe mentally / emotionally / spiritually W and I weren’t on the same wavelength for our attitudes about sex, and it spilled over into the lived experience and physical aspects.
I do agree that if one partner is an ‘8’ and the other is a ‘2,’ then obviously it’s not going to work at all. The partners / spouses should be rather similar in terms of sex drive.
