Over

Just catching up

I understand she is driving you nuts

She wants all the benefits of a H

But none of the obligations of a W

It breaks your heart

She is at worst taking advantage of you

And at best undecided

And you do not know what to do

I suggest you take a step back

Maybe go on a trip with a buddy

Or by yourself

You don’t have to tell her anything

But my guess is you will

So just say

I need some time by myself

And then when you are by yourself

Acknowledge your feelings

Let them out

Scream and shout

Cry

Be silent

Do whatever you need to do for you

But also dig deep into your beliefs

Feelings change

Beliefs are who you are at your core

And that does not change

Do not make decisions based upon your feelings

Make them based upon your beliefs

I support you man

I have been where you are

The answer is within you

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving