Just keep swimming, I know I can, New beginning

[marina7]

Thank you DnJ
And just read your post everything correct
As our LBS stories are exactly the same.

Bubbs16

Thank you for stopping by.
By just reading your post lots of pain and and hurt within you

I think we all in the beginning have that mindset, W or H leaving us is BS

Ask yourself this question
Is it normal to just walk away from everything.
And as DnJ wrote is a pattern if your W took only little
Things then Yes W is also in MLC.

My W falls the script. Did 2yrs I believe it No
W left her military uniform, pictures, important
Papers, birth certificate ect
All her childhood pictures
W took a hand full of clothes and W bar I made for her several
Years ago. And money but literally blew it.

To anyone who is stable will say people our age that's not normal.

Just imagine giving a 15yrs old Money, credit cards and car
And No rules.

Bubbs16 it will take time.
If you go way.... back you can see where I just also said BS
But the more I got help professional help also groups and this forum
And most importantly God you will start seeing more clearer.

I will go read your post Bubbs16

I have unconditional love for my W or ExW
Because I also have unconditional love for my kids

That's why is marriage through good and bad.
I look at things very different and ways
If W had an accident and was in coma would I blame W
If W overnight had alzheimer would I walk away.

No I wouldn't I would remind W my love. I would constantly remind
W the person W fell in love with. You just don't give up on the person you love

Bubbs16
If you did then you was never in love. True love is hard to explain.

Am sorry your hurting but only with time you will see what DnJ and many
Of us are saying.

Remember we are here to vent and is ok to be angry our W or H hurt us
Is normal to feel this but also don't let it consume you.