I think we need to look at the "rules" and our own individual situations and make our own decisions sometimes.
Absolutely!
You know your situation better than anyone. Take what advice pertains and leave the rest. One of the best “rules” is to do more of what works and less of what doesn’t.
I am glad to see you grounded again and with more acceptance. It is what it is - so true.
Good for you regarding H’s birthday. I think you approached it very well.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
