Turbine, you feel like you need to move far away to undergo a serious change, do I have that right?

Let's imagine you did do that, all those challenges you listed I saw as things to be excited about if you did make that change. You'd be in a brand new world. Now, I'm not saying I recommend you do it b/c I'm not sure really. But you can do anything you want if you have the can-do attitude and the mindset that you're going to be positive and accomplish your goals.

As for who you are, well that is always changing in my opinion. Whether or not you recognize it, you are always passively changing in some ways. But the important question is in what ways are you actively changing and how does that line up with who you believe you really are and who you really want to be?


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BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.