Definitely get her something from the kids only. It doesn't have to be a "kid-centric" gift, but leave the emotion out of it. No ILYs ot sappy stuff on the card. Read Sandi's rules before purchase and card writing.
Me: 44 Her: 42 T: 22, M: 20 D:18, S:16, S:11 Sep: 6 months in 2002 Sep again: March 15, 2015 (5 months) WAW talk again: January 21, 2019
