Just from what you've shared it looks to be going quite well. You are creating an honest safe space for her to come to you. It'll get awkward and if you are way out of line, the vets will help steer you back on path.
You know you're impatient. Don't let that set you back.
Look at your first sentence.
Then look at your last sentence.
What do these things tell you and everyone else? What do you think W will pick up from you?
BTW, did you say a while back both of you dated while going through this the first time around? How did you both heal from that? Are you both certain OP is not in the picture? You mentioned going on these trips and W is not happy and you wanted to be considerate of her feelings. is there a reason for that? Do you want to make sure she trusts you? And do you trust her?
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current