Thank you Gerda! I'm at more peace today than I was 5 days ago, for sure. It's interesting that you spoke about praying a novena to seek God's will for whether you should ask your H to move out. I wish I had had more faith at that time, and had turned to prayer. I believe now that was not a wise thing to do. Perhaps this belief is wrong. But it's there all the same. Perhaps this belief is because my H accused me of throwing him out and not caring he was living in a bad situation (not true, of course). Really, these were both choices HE ultimately made. He could have said. "No, I don't want to move out", and he could have chosen better places to live.
But, that's water under the bridge, and I got side-tracked.
