I guess I was referring more to quality over frequency. If the two aren’t on the same page for frequency then yes, game over. However, for me I’d take meaningful encounters every two weeks or even longer over meaningless sex every other day. I think pseudo scheduled sex is probably even worse than no sex at all in a LTR or marriage. Again, that’s just from experience and I didn’t realize it before. I’ll never pressure a partner for sex unless she is totally into it.
