Your interaction with your wife sounds great, not that you got the apology you would have liked, but you stood your ground without emotion or rancor. That is the way to handle these things!
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019