Tonight we had our agreed upon weekly catch up to mainly talk over logistical things.
Kept it strictly business, no R talk. Kept to the agenda, ie "have you set up your bank account?" ok good, I will close our joint credit card on this date etc etc.
No dramas, everything wrapped up in 5 minutes.
I get up to leave, and she calls out and asks if she should contact my parents and siblings (who I know she is very close with).
I say sure, you can do what you want. She asked what she should expect, and what I have told them as to why we have separated, which I said, the truth, that you are having an emotional affair.
She started to cry and then asked if they'd want to speak with her, to which I said no, which is the truth. Then she really started to cry. I simply left to go into my room after that.
Was that too cold? Should I have done that?
At the end of the day I didn't lie, both my parents and siblings are furious at her actions, and have told me that they do not intend to speak with her.
Maybe she's starting to realise what her actions will actually cost her.
It was hard to walk away with her crying. She has still not admitted to anything though.
