Totally agree Pinn. That was a huge problem in my MR in the last half. As soon as my H started checking out, the intimacy went downhill. I think it was a classic men from Mars, women from Venus scenario. I needed to feel close to him emotionally to want to have sex and needed to have sex in order to feel close to me emotionallly. The adjustment to having twins was a really tough one on us. I was super exhausted much of the time.... working fulll time, commuting, housework, etc... My H and I should have made date nights a priority and talked more. HIndsight is always 20/20 though. It is the one thing I have had a tough time forgiving myself for.
