No kids , we have been trying on and off for the better part of like 8 years. Wife was actively taking meds to help us conceive when i got the bd. Thats the part that hurts me the most. I just dont get it. Is that the driving force behind what shes doing ? I dont know . DId they send her into depression maybe? That and the simple fact that they didnt work either and its just to much for her to deal with , so she gave up ?