I remember when my wife hated her job wasnt good at etc and it was what she thought was her career for life. She was still struggling daily with the loss of her mom although it had been years. She would come home and lock herself in the bedroom for the rest of the night . I felt like I didnt have a wife. This was probably 7 years ago maybe. It lasted probably a year or so till we moved home. We were living 1000 miles away from family. Anyway it was very hard for me to go through with her but I sure the heck didnt give up on her and walk away . I wasn't happy or in a good place but i dididnt give up i stuck it out. Like i said somewhere I often do wonder what if it was me that had the feelings she has now and I wanted out ? I Can sit here and say i'd never do that but maybe thats not true? Maybe it could happen with me.
