I agree, (about willing to be unhappy for a short while to sort things through and being happy again together on the other side). I wish more people viewed difficult situations in this way. And I too thought my husband was on the same page as me when it came to that. I guess the truth it you don't really know until they're tested. People do change their mind about what commitment means to them. Things happen and they just can't be as strong as you think they might be or want them to be.
