Weddings can be tough. They can trigger a lot of emotions and memories. Good on you for toughing it out and getting through it! I know that going through the D process is difficult as well, as I am in the process of getting the paperwork together. Even though I want it, it is still hard emotionally.
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Back in August/Sept after Dday, WW messaged her and our mutual friend got the impression that WW wanted to come back to me, but WW said (Manta won't reply to me)...
I asked her maybe in the future could she reach out to WW,
Why are you using a mutual friend as a go-between? You are receiving messages and updates about your W, and then you want this person to pass on a message? That is not healthy at all. That is pursuit. You need to stop communicating about W and tell your friend that you don't want to hear anything about her. The focus needs to be on you, not on her. You say that you are GALing but don't mention anything, it's all about her. What are you doing for yourself?
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
