we def are all in the same boat for sure. I thought I had been with my wife for a long time at 17 years. 25 and 27 man thats a LONG time. Adam thats a way to put it I've never heard before. lbs left behind picking up the pieces one bye one alone. The thing is I dont want to be free or single, I would have never chose that. I know, its not our choice to make and that they are on their own journey. Sometimes i sit back and think you know I say I wouldnt ever walk away but im not going through what they are, im not in their shoes. I wonder what that would be like.