There is no quick fix. Skipping parts of the process does not help. Have you had 3-4 woman actively pursuing you at the same time? That is what you want. Most likely this is many months away.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712