Hi Ovrrnbw, your situation is so complicated! I think that's a great idea to go out and do stuff on your own. Just stepping out of this boiler room situation should help a lot. On the other hand this already been going on for almost a year so at some point, someday (maybe in another year?) I'm sure that you'll reach a point where you've had enough or your wife will reach a point where she's ready to take this marriage seriously. I hope something happens sooner or later because I know all too well from my own experience how draining it is to stay in a broken marriage for years and years.
