It's been a great day, and I managed to get the stuff done around the house that needed maintenance. Me and the kids had a really great day, and decided to push going swimming for tomorrow, and then we mostly was outside for the entire day, as the weather was b e a u t i f u l !
Kids are nearly a sleep on the couch now after having had dinner (paprika chicken with cream mashed potatoes - they love it!)
I was just making their bedrooms ready for the night (we had an cowboy invasion in d5s room, so there was some cleaning up to do after the "battle") when d5 came with my phone and said I had gotten a message because it said a sound.
So I got two texts from my ex who basically asked how the day had been for us, and if I had taken any pictures I could send to her.
Heres the catch - I from aforementioned intel option, that she is on a date with her new guy, and I can feel I am not detached, because I found that disrespectful to check in like that.
So heres the deal really:
1. She is a good mother, and she is just checking in on the kids, and I guess thats nice to know, that she cares deeply about them, and miss them when they are not around. That was not really the case in the beginning of her new love adventure.
2. She treated me so bad, and disrespected me, used me to her own advantages, lied and manipulated me, and in time I guess #1 applies, and I won't bother about her asking about the kids when she is with the OM, however! I am definitely not there, and found it really really disrespectful, even though she doesnt know that I know where she is.
I didnt, and am not going to respond to her text, unless advised differently by you guys.
Am I bat sh.t crazy or does my logic make sense? It might be me who is unreasonable, but fk I feel like NGS kicking in if I reply to that.
/h
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.
