I like the fact that W is guessing about who you are with- and it is bothering her be mysterious in this area--just my opinion not to overdo it, but if situation comes up as it did- well you did great
you can have fun plans, with a friend..(does not mean you have to do anything) but we don't have to be so transparent either she does not have to know you are home every night waiting on her return-
The DB coach always told me to do whatever behaviors bring them closer- and stop the ones that push away
there is something very attractive about a LBS that creates a new life and a littler mystery new friends and activities and possible new closer friends-- none of her business what you are doing
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