I think you're eager, excited, anxious... and rightfully so. You're ready to move forward. R2C said it earlier regarding your book and the steps you're supposed to be taking. Its not the destination or the end goal. It's what you pick up along the way. Aren't you building skills from the book you're reading?
I'm saying don't be so quick to replace R1 with R2.
This is what I told my W right after BD(I said a lot back then when I tried to reason with her). When you have a goal and you're so honed in on completing that goal, do you see the obstacles in the way? Does the path there matter? Sometimes those "things" are your spouse, your children, your financial security, w/e you want to call it. Some people neglect to see what is in front of them because its blocking them from their goal. They're going to push those people out of their way or go around them to get to their goal. The WAS is like this. I think its human nature to be like this. This is what helps goal oriented people succeed because they do not let anything stand in their way. Does this make sense if the R is your goal?
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
