Thank you both , Marina what I meant by that was in the beginning when I first found out about other man I said I wouldn't help meaning change days etc. That was only in the beginning two days after BD#2 I was a little emotional. Now I would take them in a second. I am the stable parent no doubt I love my kids and I do love my wife. I am starting to find compassion for what she is going through. This isn't the same girl I fell in love with,
