I emerge. I rise. I AM Phoenix9. (Phoenix9 DB XII)

[Adam04]

I agree with R2C. Phoenix, I know I have been sounding like Debbie Downer on your thread about this part of it. You said you went in hot though so you must have recognized something, something I was trying to give you a heads up on.

I cant give advice on the dating scene or being social other than to be your great self, but I can talk to you about being alone and that it is okay to be alone. If we can be alone and be happy, we can share that with others. Break the codependency.

Don't worry about being Mr Perfect or doing everything right by the book. AMOAFWL , does he know what to do and not do? What happens if you are Mr Perfect to the wrong woman?

Enjoy allllll this freedom you have and all the choices that come along with it. Don't rush looking for something. Let them come to you because you are happy and your happiness gravitates them to you.