A lot of MLCers become a certain type and then stay that way, however as has been stated, it depends. Every MLCer is different and bring their own quirks to the mix. They do tend to follow a similar overall script with their individual traits here and there.
My W is a vanisher. She left me and the kids. The last time she spoke to me in any form was S18’s graduation, June 2018. She contacts the kids sporadically, the last visit with all of them was Christmas for an hour. The Christmas before that was 20 minutes. A couple of other visits, and some texts. That’s it. If you add it all up, there might be 20 hours total in the last 15 months - for the kids, my total is much less.
It is nice to hear your W is being a mom.
Be strong. Be the stable parent. You will make it.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
