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[marina7]

Father5,

To answer your question.

The first 6 months where bad I mean bad quick recap for me

April 17 W left literally M.I.A for 3 months. Just phone call
Here and there. And will send me text for pictures of kids.

W block me from all social media, But still has my family
Stepmom seen W pictures with OW in Cancun having fun.

While I struggled emotionally and financially W took all savings
And checking totaling over $25,000.00

I had to pack a 3,000 square foot house W left everything all W pictures,
Clothes and military items. W literally WAW.

Around August W took s10 splitting kids. W started using kid as pawn and mistreating
The last 2 we adopted. My situation was bad. I didn't see s10 for almost 4 months till court

Once court W still was monstrous I mean Satan walking around spewing horrible things
Wish me death at one point. Told me to go kill myself.

I wouldn't wish this on anyone.

A year pass still monster. But W would peek out and go back to monster

W forsure cake eater to remind me. I would say almost 8 months ago I realized
I need to stop being the Victim. It took time and still working on me but am getting there

After many court kids are back together. They stay with W due to better school district
But I see W and communicate more.

I have seen W coming through more and more. But W still in the tunnel.

Example when W is with OW totally different person. When W alone the old W peeks out

Almost 2yrs of this and finally starting to look at me. When they first start this
There is no eye contact. They look away they look down and they stay fsr away.

Is all MLC they act like we beat them is so weird, they act scared and everywhere

This is why I say you are the stable parent. They will make you feel crazy but your not.

I had a monster, runner, vanisher, I think my W was all in one.

So if your looking for timing how long, like Job said it all depends.

I forsure had a high functioning MLC in one. But is crumbling down. Is weighing on her
W is 38 and has aged in the last 2yrs. I am 41 and been told several times I look like am
in my early 30ish.