The bff and her are talking. The BFF 15 yo daughter was with her too which my kids know. I was too busy trying to get my kids in and out of the shower. She stayed in kitchen area and I stayed upstairs away. Evidently she forgot her boots in my wife’s car but had to wait for my wife to get back. Hindsight, I should have told her she could just wait outside.
On the MC, that may be a good idea of asking the two counselors when they think we are ready for marriage counseling. We can go to one MC and then go from there too. I want to address more than the OM in Mc. I want to learn to trust, communicate, be self confident, relaxed and listen or validate more.