AA, she was in a 3some with her and the BFF, the oral sex she gave you is an excuse for your W to do whatever she wants. As I said, neither of you have a right to the moral high ground here. Both need IC (I know you are getting it),and then if both are ready to commit back to the MR, then MC. I don't see MC helping you guys until you both get individual help first.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
