Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 7)

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You are doing really well Bo. Keep up the good work! As I went through the process and finances we an big issues, my lawyer continued to say, document, document, document. If it comes to D, this will all be part of the negotiation process. If there is money being siphoned off, keep track of it. It seems petty (especially if you are buying new clothes and things as well), but keep track of her spending in case you get hosed over time. It's hard to feel detached while going through this, but detach from her and the relationship, not from your finances. The other hard piece is even that you know she is doing things that piss you off, don't let it effect the way you interact with her.

Keep your head up and keep growing. You got this!