Miler just keep those expectations low. The detachment dynamic certainly has all of the effects you mention. The temptation is for the LBS to let their guard down and reattach unhealthily. You seem to have a good handle on this, so just keep reading, learning, working and DBing. You've got this.


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M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
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