staying the course

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Thanks Sandi, I think I did detect humility in her. She said she has never done this in her life where she has had to be this humble. I diagnosed her as a Narcissist 7,8,9 months ago and a true Narcissist would never get to this point. They will not even lie like this and risk looking so wrong. My W has never made up with her parents after their blow out 9 months ago when she was in the wrong although I fell her wanting to.

I do see a change in her right now and although cautious I think she is now trying but I do know that there will be that withdrawal. Like neffer said I am trying to be the light....and a strong light to help where I can with that.

I told her about the tracking because my instincts where always right, the proof was just for validation to make sure I wasn't going crazy....but now I know...now I know...that intuition is most often right and I'm not playing this game anymore. Maybe she sensed that, maybe that is helping clear the fog.