I have time to decide. She took the kids on a cruise with some of our friends. I am in Florida visiting family. Sunday is her 40th birthday. We both get home on Sunday. Not sure what I should get her. Also, I was going to use that we been away from each other the past week for my decision to move out. I really don’t want to, just thought that would help with detachment. Which I understand what you are saying. I just think with me there she has her cake too. I definitely need to be stronger with her and create boundaries. She is good at twisting anything I say or do as me being selfish and being vindictive. Those have been her favorite words since this started. Always making me feel guilty.

Last edited by Wolfman; 02/22/19 04:44 PM.
M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20