It’s a joint account that we both deposit payroll into, and draw from to pay bills.

I’ve been considering moving direct deposit of my paycheck to my personal checking account—L and I talked about this previously. L previously said to hold off for now—don’t rock the boat or escalate. I will tell L about this—this will probably change her mind.

I also saw for the Digit savings app that it was not closed—rather, she moved $$$ over. I saw that the Digit account continues to siphon off $$$ from both of our paychecks, and she treated herself to something Fitbit for $215.

I also took screenshots of the transactions in question and emailed them to myself, so I can have for later. In case she denies or plays dumb.

I’m PO’ed, to say the least. (Was feeling so good about things, and thought I was better about detachment.)

Last edited by Bo562; 02/22/19 03:17 PM.

M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19